How do you show someone that you love them? Saying 'I love you' has become so everyday that almost no one does it, and when they do it's recieved with the same response anyway... 'I love you too'. How boring! As if neither person could think of anything original to say to the other.
There are special cases. If you're with someone that doesn't say it at all, and then from seemingly out of nowhere you're hit with the L-Bomb, that's probably real.
What I've noticed lately is people 'showing' their love for one another. This is done in a myriad of ways that range from sweet to ewww.
Flowers: Usually a good idea. While working in an office, I saw several women send them to themselves in an attempt stir up a little commotion, or incite jealousy. How shallow do you have to be? While still a good idea, it's sort of a knee-jerk reaction type thing. You can do better.
Diamonds: What woman wouldn't want them? Nice try. Now try saying I love you in an way that doesn't jeopardize the rent!
Chocolate: Are you kidding me? Chocolate has it's own issues with being used as a substitute or a comforter... Don't go there.
Puppies/animals: They start out cute, but then they become what they really are, dependants. These things cost money! If you're not prepared to take care of it, don't give it as a gift. (Sorry Misty)
Don't get me wrong. All thses choices are really good. But you can't and shouldn't show your love with a monetary gift. And the points you get for being creative are worth more than you can imagine. Try a few of these:
Bubble baths: Alone or together, this very intimate gift is always welcome. It shows that you took time to think of her. Especially if the water is scented with her favorite scent, or has rose petals or candles floating atop of it. Caution: This is a gateway gift. It can lead to other things. Enjoy!
Dinner: Eat it. Prepare something for her. Even if you burn the hell out of it, you tried! The effort more than the end result is what's noticed here. But if you do manage to pull it off...
Back/Body rubs: Do I really have to explain this one? I thought not!
Any of these things alone is good. When used in conjunction with one another, even better. Hell, you can even use things from the first group with these. Go nuts! And when you have a good night after you try these things, don't forget to say thanks to the Kingpin!
